About marriage….

“Elderly man and woman touch foreheads in black and white photo” by Lotte Meijer on Unsplash

I’m a married man for about 10 years and I’m 35 years old….

I believe that if we approach marriage as we approach a business transaction or we have reasons and a list to why we should or shouldn’t get married then i believe that:

• One is not ready to get married
• Has fears about commitment
• Sees marriage as a transaction and something to make profit of it ( taxes pre marriage contracts etc)

But marriage (in my opinion) its exactly the opposite… one should give all he have to the other and vice versa

Marriage is about ultimate love

Marriage is about 2 people who love each other so they became “one flesh and one body”

So i believe marriage is a very complicated commitment that one should approach with a completely different view from what the trend of our era is .. i mean we shouldn’t look marriage as something we can benefit from but something that we will give everything we have and by doing this we will certainly be benefit from it!!